.Ramblings of ayunie.
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This is AYUN
Her organiser's over here.
And her art over here.
This blog is not about GORE. It is about the finer points of life and how much we can live it by enjoying it to the fullest...
NOT!
This is GOHR-blog. Nothing will make sense here now...I think.
I try to remember 1. Everybody doesn't have to love me Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay. 2. It is okay to make mistakes Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying, and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for others to make mistakes too. I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes that others make.
3. Other people are okay and I am okay People who do things I don't like are not necessarily bad people. They shouldn't necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I am whatever I want to be. I want me to be me. Not controlling other people or changing them. They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect. 4. I don't have to control things I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, accept mysef the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if I can't change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why I should have to like everything. Even if I don't like it, I can live with it. 5. I am responsible for my day I am responsible for how I feel or what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, I am the one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibility of other people to change so that I can feel better. I am the one who is in charge of my life. 6. I can handle it when things go wrong I don't need to watch out for things to go wrong. Things usually go just fine, and when they don't, I can handle it. I don't have to waste too much energy worrying. The sky won't fall in; things will be okay. 7. It is important to try I can. Even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, it is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not giv eme any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something. 8. I am capable I don't need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of myself. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don't have to depend on somebody else to take care of me. 9. I can change I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. It's silly to think I can't help be the way I am. Of course I can. I can change.
10. Other people are capable I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and they can take care of themselves, and solve their own problems. I can care and be of some help, but I can't do everything for them. 11. I can be flexible There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. There is no one and only 'best' way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone's ideas are worthwhile and everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
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Wednesday
I try to remember 1. Everybody doesn't have to love me Not everybody has to love me or even like me. I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay. 2. It is okay to make mistakes Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying, and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for others to make mistakes too. I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes that others make.
3. Other people are okay and I am okay People who do things I don't like are not necessarily bad people. They shouldn't necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I am whatever I want to be. I want me to be me. Not controlling other people or changing them. They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect. 4. I don't have to control things I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, accept mysef the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if I can't change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why I should have to like everything. Even if I don't like it, I can live with it. 5. I am responsible for my day I am responsible for how I feel or what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, I am the one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibility of other people to change so that I can feel better. I am the one who is in charge of my life. 6. I can handle it when things go wrong I don't need to watch out for things to go wrong. Things usually go just fine, and when they don't, I can handle it. I don't have to waste too much energy worrying. The sky won't fall in; things will be okay. 7. It is important to try I can. Even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, it is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not giv eme any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything, but I can do something. 8. I am capable I don't need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take care of myself. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don't have to depend on somebody else to take care of me. 9. I can change I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. It's silly to think I can't help be the way I am. Of course I can. I can change.
10. Other people are capable I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people or fix up their lives. They are capable and they can take care of themselves, and solve their own problems. I can care and be of some help, but I can't do everything for them. 11. I can be flexible There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. There is no one and only 'best' way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone's ideas are worthwhile and everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
gallery
Random shit.
I drew me.
I drew me again.
This was drawn on my macbook before I lost it.
2006, from left, Rafi, me, Shabs, JM, Nina, and Khai.
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
